By Jennifer Blanchard
Writing takes time.
There is no way around it. Writing doesn’t just happen. You can’t coax writing out of thin air. Writing requires you to put your butt in a chair in front of your computer and stay there until you have words on a page.
So if you want to be a writer (and eventually an author), you need to write.
But how can you write if your schedule is over-packed, especially with things that might not be in alignment with your goals?
Taking on too much is a very common problem. And sometimes people take on too much without even realizing it’s too much.
Here are some common symptoms of people who take on too much:
- Rarely ever say no to someone’s request, no matter if you actually have time for it or not.
- You schedule is packed from the minute you wake up until the second your head hits the pillow at night.
- You often feel tired/exhausted/over-worked and like you have no time to relax.
- You feel like you never really accomplish anything, yet you’re always so busy.
- You often feel stressed out.
- You think you can do it all.
- You think you have to do it all.
The truth of the matter is: You can’t do it all and you don’t have to do it all.
If you’re someone who finds yourself overloaded all the time, barely leaving yourself any time to do the things you want to do, like write, it’s time for you to simplify and outsource.
Take a look at your to-do list (if you have one. If you don’t, I highly recommend you make one.). What on there is something you don’t have to do yourself? Is there anything you can have your spouse do? Or can you outsource it (for example, hire a cleaning company to clean your house so you can spend time writing?)
The idea behind the MIT is to decide the night before each day what task(s) is the most important one you need to complete. Write it down, then make it a point to complete it, regardless of what else you get done that day.
Leo recommends having three MITs for each day. (An example of this can be seen on the blog, Tenacious Me, where blogger Laura Lee Bloor details at the bottom of each post her three most important things for the day.)
I highly recommend that one of your three MITs be related to your writing goals.
This simple technique can help you prioritize your to do list.
And if you find that you have been taking on too much, you need to start saying no. It might be difficult at first, but it will save you your sanity and keep you from burning out and/or never getting your writing done.
Tip: Consider outsourcing all the tasks for the day that don’t fit on your MIT list.
Do you ever take on too much? How do you remedy it?